First be fixed in the consciousness that yourself is the immortal Atma, which is indestructible, which is holy, pure and divine. That will give you unshakable courage and strength. Then you must develop mutual love and respect. Tolerate all kinds of persons and opinions; all attitudes and peculiarities.
(From : Sai Veda, The Word of God, sayings of Bhagavan Sri Sathya Sai Baba)