How is one to grasp the oneness of Atma and Paramatma ?
The relationship of the jiva and the Lord, the kinship between the two can be grasped by everyone who acquires three chief instruments : (1) A mind unsullied by attachment and hatred (2) A speech unsullied by falsehood and (3) A body unsullied by Violence. (Prema Vahini, pg 29-30)