Equanimity comes as a result of the awareness of unity, not otherwise.
(From : Garland of 1008 Gems, Bhagawan Shri Sathya Sai Baba's Sayings)
Holding the fan by the hand will not help; you must move it to and fro vigorously, in order to feel the cool breeze that blows on your face. There is no breeze in the fan; it is all around you, everywhere, as air. Direct it towards yourself by sadhana. So too, direct the Grace of God that is everywhere, towards you and make yourself happy by sadhana.